tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post5328915090825389166..comments2024-02-27T12:41:35.811-08:00Comments on Coming to Terms...: Hot Flash Cafe, I Knew Ye Well...Or Not.Lisa :-]http://www.blogger.com/profile/02237889098638895390noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-50054707349345741952012-06-24T13:34:09.883-07:002012-06-24T13:34:09.883-07:00This comment has been removed by a blog administrator.Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-36675942972964743922012-06-24T13:33:51.913-07:002012-06-24T13:33:51.913-07:00I'd like to say that no circumstance is a wast...I'd like to say that no circumstance is a waste of time...but actually I do think I have had a similar bad experience (think AZ) and not sure what there is in that time for me...well, except I learned a lot about mean people....Terrihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15667178624061122421noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-3916513979178970692012-06-22T23:23:47.131-07:002012-06-22T23:23:47.131-07:00I don't know, Barb.... I don't feel horri...I don't know, Barb.... I don't feel horrible about it, really. I just don't go there. And I don't think I'll be tempted to "go there" anytime in the foreseeable future. Because I honestly don't think there's a whole lot that happened during those years that bears revisiting.Lisa :-]https://www.blogger.com/profile/02237889098638895390noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-49316544571661876932012-06-22T18:52:34.972-07:002012-06-22T18:52:34.972-07:00I've been there hon, and know how horrible it ...I've been there hon, and know how horrible it makes you feel. It wasn't easy but I finally managed to accept that it was a part of my life that I failed at. What helped me was reminding myself that I did my best. that is all one can do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08563892811221295801noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-71877790094622550182012-06-21T16:43:13.691-07:002012-06-21T16:43:13.691-07:00I could use a few "do overs....."I could use a few "do overs....."Virginiahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04451139904242764009noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-64774595438525216002012-06-21T14:44:11.953-07:002012-06-21T14:44:11.953-07:00Lisa - Sometimes I have this fantasy that we'r...Lisa - Sometimes I have this fantasy that we're finally through this horrible chapter in our lives, and I plop down in a chair in a place I feel is "home" and I say "wow....that really sucked!" This whole New York era has been a painful debacle. I understand what you're saying about sensing wasted time. And all of a sudden, there doesn't seem to be that much surplus time to waste.sunflowerkat https://www.blogger.com/profile/11643564072168293568noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-63014337880694631032012-06-21T04:25:03.610-07:002012-06-21T04:25:03.610-07:00Treading gingerly in my comment, Lisa, for it'...Treading gingerly in my comment, Lisa, for it's not easy to come to terms with what you feel as lost years. Put it down to experience? Anyway, perhaps the best way is forward without looking back.ADBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17737746983905368038noreply@blogger.com