tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post8992134809148341579..comments2024-02-27T12:41:35.811-08:00Comments on Coming to Terms...: AnticipationLisa :-]http://www.blogger.com/profile/02237889098638895390noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-21802568111437350012005-08-25T23:57:00.000-07:002005-08-25T23:57:00.000-07:00Have a great visit! He sounds like a wonderful gu...Have a great visit! He sounds like a wonderful guy! Have him find a match on eHarmony! I just joined and it's so much different that one would expect. I fully believe I will be successful in finding someone with similar interests and values. Hugs, LisaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-89618127040446231092005-08-26T03:19:00.000-07:002005-08-26T03:19:00.000-07:00the strange inner workings ofthe human heart,no ma...the strange inner workings ofthe human heart,no matter how full you think it is , it always stretches to hold one more<br>martiAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-29736954528313067842005-08-26T03:26:00.000-07:002005-08-26T03:26:00.000-07:00Lisa, I hope that the visit is wonderful.Lisa, I hope that the visit is wonderful.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-35031774963621415562005-08-26T06:10:00.000-07:002005-08-26T06:10:00.000-07:00I'm sure it will be fine. Have you ever notic...I'm sure it will be fine. Have you ever noticed that the things we are the most apprehensive about, are the ones that generally turn out fine. Well, that's what happens to me, alot of the time.<br>I hope you have a wonderful time with your BIL. <br>I'm sure that you will... :)<br><br>Jackie<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-36102046536933697702005-08-26T06:54:00.000-07:002005-08-26T06:54:00.000-07:00The things that we worry about the most, almost ne...The things that we worry about the most, almost never happen. I'm sure you'll have a lovely visit and I am quite impressed that you have remained close to this man after 10 years. And after all this time, I think it highly doubtful that he'd find someone to replace your sister. A companion perhaps, but never a true love, again.<br>Good luck.<br>MAryanne<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-61665824293162694572005-08-26T07:14:00.000-07:002005-08-26T07:14:00.000-07:00I am happy for you & your relationship with K....I am happy for you & your relationship with K. Far too often we let go of people because what brought us together in the first place has gone... and its a shame. I miss my step brothers terribly since our parents divorced. One keeps in touch occassionally but usually my efforts to stay connected go without a response. It's heartbreaking! It sounds as if K is a true friend, in for the long haul, not just a brother-in-law. Enjoy time with your life long friend - and let us know how things go!<br><br>All the best,<br>DawnAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-76837053060099393402005-08-26T13:10:00.000-07:002005-08-26T13:10:00.000-07:00Yes, I think that if he does find a very special p...Yes, I think that if he does find a very special person there is a good chance that you will remain family. Have a great two weeks.<br><br>Jackie<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-75236089955688597642005-08-26T15:36:00.000-07:002005-08-26T15:36:00.000-07:00Lisa-What a lovely entry this is and thank you for...Lisa-<br>What a lovely entry this is and thank you for sharing something so touching and very personal with us. In my humble opinion, I think the two of you will be just great and pick right up where you left off; I truly believe that. He sounds like a really a great guy who absolutely adored your sister. How many people can say that? Not many. <br><br>Enjoy your visit and show him how spectacular your surrounding are!<br><br>Thanks again,<br>Gayla<br>http://journals.aol.com/schoolgal040/SoMuchMoreAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-3230202563131927192005-08-26T16:22:00.000-07:002005-08-26T16:22:00.000-07:00I hope you have a wonderful visit, full of both pa...I hope you have a wonderful visit, full of both past and future.<br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-87232114831235198562005-08-27T09:58:00.000-07:002005-08-27T09:58:00.000-07:00Personally I believe that family is family no matt...Personally I believe that family is family no matter HOW the relationship started. Once you claim a soul as Your Family they remain that for always, despite the years or the legality.<br><br>I am excited for you and with you Lisa.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-33451456035207285292005-08-27T11:50:00.000-07:002005-08-27T11:50:00.000-07:00I knew several families where when the person rema...I knew several families where when the person remarried still kept in touch with them. I think as long as you were receptive to his new spouse you woudn't have a problem. You are an important part of his past life.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-88575171197530825772005-08-27T14:06:00.000-07:002005-08-27T14:06:00.000-07:00Once a family, always a family. I do believe that ...Once a family, always a family. I do believe that your relationship with your BIL will not change if he remarried... <br><br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-33554578143124923162005-08-30T05:19:00.000-07:002005-08-30T05:19:00.000-07:00I can imagine your anticipation, but I'm sure all ...I can imagine your anticipation, but I'm sure all will fall right back into place once he gets there. Once again feeling like it hasn't been so long since your last visit. Have a wonderful time catching up.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-62242451264445616252005-08-30T17:00:00.000-07:002005-08-30T17:00:00.000-07:00Its only natural to wonder what changes might occu...Its only natural to wonder what changes might occur in a relationship should circumstances change ...especially when you care so deeply for someone that the thought of them not being in your life as much seems unthinkable ....i generally find the more i worry or think about such a thing happening the more likely it is to happen because im almost setting the scene for it to come true .<br>So much of our relationships with people remains unsaid or unexpressed ...how many times have we said in our lives " i dont have to say it you know how i feel " only to find ourselves wishing someone would tell us how they feel .<br>Im sure bil knows you care about him and share a bond that will never be broken .....when you see him tell him what you told us tell him all you want is for him to be happy and for him to always be a part of your life ...im thinking he will feel exactly the same way xAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-64592743836145688372005-08-31T14:37:00.000-07:002005-08-31T14:37:00.000-07:00I am begining to worry about you my friend.I am begining to worry about you my friend.<br><br><br>Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4283072392763163737.post-28243652993727429042005-09-11T10:13:00.000-07:002005-09-11T10:13:00.000-07:00Oh! I so hope you had a wonderful time. The love a...Oh! I so hope you had a wonderful time. The love and admiration you feel for him exudes from this entry. <br><br>I tried to go back to my last comment and start from there but clearly, I read here more than I comment because I kept saying surely I commented on that entry. I know I've read it. Nope. So, I'd go back one more. Nope. I was beginning to think you blocked and deleted all my comments because I haven't been present for so long. Alas, I went back far enough. I'll try to do better. :-) ---RobbieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com