Who says Facebook is a
useless, mind-numbing time-waster? Okay…maybe
any really useful information gleaned from Facebook can be filed under the
heading of “Even a Blind Pig Finds an Acorn Now and Then…”
But of course, if I hadn’t
discovered a really useful little tidbit, I wouldn’t be writing this, would
I? And what is that tidbit, you ask (you
DO ask, don’t you?) Well, here it is:
Anyone who reads here with
any regularity will remember that my entrepreneurial experience left me with a
dire aversion to “To-Do” lists. For five
years, I was hobbled by a chain of “needed this yesterdays” as long and as
heavy as any strong coil dragged around by Marley’s ghost. So once free of the café, I declared my
independence from to-do lists for the rest of…forever.
What’s so bad about a to-do
list? After all, it’s just like a
shopping list, isn’t it? You write down
the things you need so you don’t forget.
Cross them off when they’re done.
What’s so onerous about that?
Does anybody really believe
this? That a to-do list is merely an
innocent visual reminder of things one might otherwise forget to do? Hah!
Not so! A to-do list is designed
as an insidious finger-pointing device; with that insidious NEON finger
pointing directly to an array of gnarly character flaws we all seek to keep
well hidden, particularly from ourselves. Sloth. Disorganization. Inability to prioritize. Inability to give a damn. Inability to complete a task.
Fear. Failure.
At the very least, a to-do
list is the first billboard on that Highway to Hell: The Guilt Trip.
So, when a friend posted on
Facebook:
Another day, another to do list unchecked.
I had to comment that I had given up to-do lists for Lent. And every other week of the year.
And that, I thought, was that. Clever, succinct and heart-felt.
But then another friend of my friend posted this comment:
o Carrie Kemerer Harrington
@ Lisa, how about starting a ta-DA list instead? It is a list of all the stuff
you actually got done. Making that really helps you see how much you really do
get done instead of making you feel bad about what you didn't do.
How
simplistic, I scoffed. How
kindergarten! How “Chicken Soup for the
Soul!”
How…great
of an idea is this? Really?
What
a simple way to morph the list from a
cat-o-nine-tails into a pat on the back?
A “Look what I DID!” instead of a “Look what I COULDN’T do…” One big smiley face with no other competing
emoticons hanging around in the margins.
So
today, I started my first “Ta-DA” list.
So far, it has only two things on it.
But that’s two more things than it had on it when I got up this morning.
And
as soon as I post this, I’m going to add “wrote about ta-da list.” Because I think this definitely qualifies.
Ta-DAAAAAA!!!!
YAY! Some days I just have to do the "Ta-Da" list in my head so I remember that I do actually accomplish some things!
ReplyDeleteYou allowed me to start my day with a smile! Thank you!!
ReplyDeleteTA-DA!!!!