The other day, I overheard the husband making some
"getting to know you" conversation with a young couple who run a food
booth next to ours at the Sunday Market. When asked if we had any
children, husband responded, "No..." And then went on to
declare that the reason for this was that "we've always been so busy
working...!"
Say what?
I honestly don't know if he came up with that response
because he believed my fertility issues were nobody's business... Or if that's
what he actually believes. I've never known him to have the ability to
come up with quick, plausible fabrications to substitute for divulging
sensitive truths in social situations. Granted, we are not often together
in social situations among people we don't know well. But if this is a
skill he possesses, I've never seen him use it.
Which is why I'm more prone to think that this is what he
actually believes: that we were too busy to have a family.
And I find that more than a little disturbing.
I have observed the same behavior in my husband and have no idea if he is lying or delusional. Sometimes history can be re-written in strange ways.
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