I posted this earlier today, after yet another call to sign
a petition showed up in my Facebook news feed:
I've always had a feeling that these petitions were an
exercise in futility. Last week's story
about Paul Ryan absenting himself from the delivery of petitions from Planned
Parenthood certainly reinforced that
feeling. Think about it for just a
minute: If the GOP-controlled Congress
intends to ram through legislation over the objections of the minority in the
House and Senate, it certainly has zero interest in hearing from the people
represented by that legislative minority. Petitions
are a waste of time. Ditto phone calls
and emails to the offices of Congressional representatives. Congress has demonstrated repeatedly over the
past eight years that they have little regard for the actual will or even the
welfare of the American people.
The past nine weeks have been a struggle for me, as they
have for much of the nation. It has been
difficult to watch the days of perhaps the last sane presidency of our republic
tick away...we're down to seven, now.
The horrendous bloodbath that was the 2016 election left us all so
drained that we literally cannot face the fear and dread that lies like a stone
in our hearts. Haven't we all held out a
shred of hope that Trump would somehow, against all odds, rise to this
challenge and at least start acting like an adult, if not entirely
presidential? Haven't we all been
secretly waiting for some sign that surely things will not turn out as badly as
we think they will?
But Trump continues to comport himself like an obnoxious, entitled 12-year-old
who has never been taught the meaning of the word "no" and has no
intention of ever learning it. He tweets
garbage, selects obvious misfits for important government posts just for the
sensational value of it, picks fights with the press, sticks out his tongue and
calls anyone who disagrees with him a "loser..." His inspiring New Year's missive to the American people was a taunt to
his "enemies"--which, if one considers the results of the popular
vote, would refer to over half of those very American people--crowing playground
bully-talk about what losers they were.
So, no...there is not one tiny shred of hope emanating from
Trump or his suddenly sycophantic Republican Congress. The hopelessness is paralyzing. How many of us have been tempted to simply
turn away from this fiasco and try to live quietly and genuinely until it all
explodes? I know I have.
This evening, I was sitting in, of all places, a bar in a
bowling alley in Klamath Falls Oregon.
Country music was blaring from the stage where karaoke would begin at
9:00 pm sharp. And, almost by reflex, I was starting to feel
a curmudgeonly resentment toward these people in this area of the state, whom I
do not know but am convinced are my political "enemies"--no doubt
leaning as far right as I do left.
And then it hit me: We've got to stop hating each other.
That's what we have to do.
The hate, the division, the side-taking...it's got to stop.
Because that's where the power of those who would destroy
this country comes from. From hate. We call each other "the enemy." We spew filth at each other on a daily
basis. We've escalated from verbal assault upon our
neighbors to cyber-bullying and, finally, deadly violence. Beatings.
Rapes. Shootings. Riots.
And in our nation's
capitol, we have 535 of our duly chosen "representatives" carrying out
what they believe is OUR mandate to hate (or maybe we are carrying out theirs; it's become a chicken/egg thing...impossible to distinguish which came first.)
We've even elected ourselves a Hater-in-Chief. We're no longer the United States of
America. We're the Divided States of
Hate.
It has to stop. And
WE can stop it. At a very grass roots
level. In our neighborhoods, in our
villages and towns and cities, we have to
stop hating each other. THAT is what
we can do. All the petitions and phone
calls and emails and tweets and Facebook statuses and blog posts we can muster
will not produce the result of We The People physically laying down our swords
and our clubs, joining together and refusing to continue to hate.
THIS is what needs to be organized. THIS is the thing into which we need to pour
our hearts, our blood, sweat and tears.
We need to join together and STOP THE HATE.
Once we stop hating, our god-forsaken joke of a government
can continue to stall, or stagnate or even explode, and we'll weather the storm. Because we'll care about each other, and we'll take care of each other.
We are all we have, my friends. And that is not a bad thing.
There are 319 million of us. We are...HUGE!
When Harry Truman was fighting for his second term he got on a train and went whistle stopping. I've heard that there were times they had to do a whip round the train to keep it going since he was getting almost no support from the party. If he wanted to win he had to get out and TALK to people. Big people, little people, the people in what we call the "fly over" part of the country.
ReplyDeleteAnd the era of social media only makes it worse. The keyboard fanatics seem to forget that there are a lot of people who don't own computers or use them the way some of the rest of us do. These people and their opinions are invisible to too many of us.
There's a story knocking around about the first nation wide political poll using telephones. I BELIEVE it was when FDR was running for his second term. According to the poll the Republicans were going to win. Trouble is, many of the folks who were likely to vote for Roosevelt didn't have telephones!
And too many of us on both sides are willing to believe the worst without doing some investigating of our own. How many liberals laughed at the birthers, truthers, the Obama is a secret Muslim, the folks who claimed that Hillery was running a trafficking ring out of a pizza parlor. And how many liberals have jumped on the allegations about Trump and Russian "golden showers." It may be true, but good Lord the man has enough baggage that we know to be true without drooling over what amounts to political porn?
We are better than this time to prove it. Thanks for letting me bend your ear. So to speak.