Husband's family exited town yesterday at noon. We spent the rest of the day doing absolutely nothing. We did manage to squeeze in a two-hour nap...
I think the visit was a success. A decent time was had by all. But we do not entertain that often, so even a casual lunch or dinner with friends is a little stressful. Imagine spending an entire 96 hours with another couple. I am amazed at how hard that was! We had planned a few activities, but the weather hardly cooperated. For all that I spent several days working on the back yard and the deck, it was never really nice enough outside to sit out there and enjoy it. Our trip to the Rose Garden was somewhat spoiled by cool, damp weather. And one entire day of our weekend at the beach was rained out. Luckily, Sunday's weather was pleasant, and we got to show our out-of-town guests a little of how beautiful our home state is!
Now, I can enjoy the clean house and fixed-up yard for a couple of weeks before I start my season. For as long as it stays that way. Yesterday morning I was greeted by a beautiful pile of cat barf in the middle of the stairs that I had spent two hours scrubbing on my hands and knees last week. And the dog is kind of on the s**t list, too. She spent the whole four days of our guests' visit cowering in fear of my husband's brother. (This is a guy who loves dogs...he and his wife were missing their own dog so much that she was making regular calls home to check up on him, and was practically in tears when she heard he had not eaten his dinner!) So, the animals put on their own little show for the house guests! *Sigh!*
Well, I guess I have to rouse myself now, get out of bed and get on to my day. My product research still needs to be done, and I have to send out applications for temporary restaurant licenses to several county health departments. And all I really want to do is sit here and do NOTHING, enjoying the quiet. Oh, well, at the very least, I have to go outside and water the new grass.
I love entertaining but it is stressful. I've always felt so responsible if everyone wasn't having a good time. Hope you find some quiet time for yourself today.
ReplyDeleteI just noticed your picture! Its great! How did you do it? I'n thinking of taking a mysterious picture of myself....hat and cigarette smoke type of sexy 40ish era...but I can't imagine me trying to insert it!!! So glad the stay went well. We had my daughter and her boyfriend over, my sister and I was a little nuts. I am one awful housekeeper!
ReplyDeleteWow, when family comes to visit, we don't seem to have enough time to do all the things we like to do. I am always so sad when they leave.
ReplyDeleteI am with you on the cat barf thing.... Slick seems to do this atleast once a week and he makes damn sure he is on the carpet instead of the tile when he does it. Kristi
Welcome back! Stressful is right! Love to see 'em come, and can't wait until they're gone! :)
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Wouldn't ya know it....animals always seem to rule the roost. LOL!
ReplyDeleteI understand whta you mean about not entertaining often enough for it to be a relaxing event. We usually announce early on that we suck at the host/hostest thing and our kitchen works just like theirs....make themselves at home or starve.
Well, it sounds like you all had a good time. I like when people visit, but like you, we don't get visitors often, so one night out is usually enough for me...I remember the first time my sister visited me with her kiddos--sheesh, I love them all to death but after about an hour and a half my nerves were shot. And I still had 6 days to go....At least your visitors were all adults. Glad you had a good time!
ReplyDeleteI guess pets, like children, never quite act how we hope them too. Glad to hear the visit was pleasant. :-) ---Robbie
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